1948 - 2025
OBITUARY
Jeffrey W. Van Benschoten was born on December 6, 1948, in Poughkeepsie, New York. A lifelong resident of Poughkeepsie, Jeff passed away peacefully at home on January 11, 2025, surrounded by his loving family. Jeff was the 12th generation of Van Benschotens born in Poughkeepsie. He graduated from Poughkeepsie High School in 1967 and earned an associate degree from Dutchess Community College in 1969. Jeff dedicated over 34 years to IBM, where he was instrumental in teaching students computer programming during the industry’s formative years. On May 24, 1970, Jeff married Diane Crouse at St. Martin de Porres Church. They were married for over 54 years. Together, they raised three children: Jared (BethAnne), Jeffrey "Jay" (Dana), and Sarah. Jeff was a proud grandfather to five grandchildren: Isabelle, Helena, Autumn, Rachael, and Colin. One of nine siblings, Jeff is survived by Sharon, Wallace (Mary), Larry, Cherrie, Donna, and Wayne, as well as his brother-in-law, Daniel Crouse (Judy), and numerous nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, Wallace E. Van Benschoten and Charmaine Taylor Van Benschoten, and his siblings, Susan Van Benschoten and Billy Van Benschoten. In his younger years, Jeff found joy in stock car racing at Arlington Speedway with his father, sparking a lifelong passion for racing that extended to BMX with his sons. He was a dedicated coach for CYO basketball and LaGrange Little League baseball and softball, always supporting his children’s and grandchildren’s athletic pursuits. Jeff shared a special bond with his daughter, Sarah, enjoying New Jersey Devils hockey games, concerts, comedy shows, and movies together. Jeff was known for his humor, captivating stories, and love of Westerns, Jeff left an indelible mark on those who knew him. The family would like to thank Jeff's longtime friend, Mark Tomizon of Florida, for his thoughtful gifts of Western movies and a DVD player during his hospice stay. Special appreciation is also extended to the compassionate team who cared for Jeff in his final months, including Hospice Angel Nurses Lawrence, Michael, Chris, Barb, and Jaime; social worker Michelle; appointment coordinator Cecilia; and Freddy from Hopewell Pharmacy. Following Jeff's wishes, there will be no visitation or formal services. However, a celebration of his life will be held at a later date.